“My mother says I didn't open my eyes for eight days after I was born, but when I did, the first thing I saw was an engagement ring. I was hooked.” (Elizabeth Taylor) He'd been telling me for quite awhile he'd marry me tomorrow if I were willing. I had eventually responded by saying, "It's time." I was happy, calm and content--absolutely willing to enjoy that state of being for awhile. When I'd uttered those two words, I hadn't envisioned moving forward with anything beyond that in the near future. Life had been moving pretty fast for me; I was ready for a "breather!" However, a few days later while driving down the road, Bachelor #5 threw in the phrase, "And then we'll go ring shopping if we have time." If I had been the one driving the car, it would have come to a screeching halt right at that moment. I felt like I couldn't breathe. The thought of setting foot in a jewelry store and shopping for an engagement ring, at my age, was something I'd never thought of or planned on! I'm not sure why. I wish I could say I handled it well, but that would be less than truthful. Thankfully, we didn't get around to it for a few more days. But that didn't make it any easier for me. I was slightly slower to convert to the idea than, say, Elizabeth Taylor. But Bachelor #5 didn't give up. He remained patient and calm through the whole process. (And it WAS a process.) We entered the first jewelry store together. An innocent young salesman approached. I don't think he had any idea what he was in for. But neither did I. I don't know the typical female response to ring shopping, but I wasn't sitting down and anxious to look at any rings or try any on, and I certainly wasn't gushing over anything that sparkled. I'd never gone ring shopping, or looked at diamonds, in my entire life. I didn't know much. I was finally persuaded to try on a setting that I didn't love, but I had to start somewhere to appease Bachelor #5 and the clerk. With the setting on my finger, the clerk dropped an assortment of loose diamonds into the center of it for me to look at. I didn't know if it was the size of the diamonds or my age (aka. poor eyesight) but I had a hard time seeing the diamonds very well. Everything seemed so small. I said to the clerk, "I'm sorry. But these diamonds all seem so small. I think you're going to have to show me some diamonds that are at least a karat. Yes, at my age, I think I need at least a karat." The salesman replied, "Ma'am, all of the stones I'm showing you are LARGER than a karat; in fact, most of them are close to two karats!" (See? I told you I didn't know anything.) I knew then and there I was fighting a battle I couldn't win because I didn't even have a clue what the rules were! We left without buying anything. And the only decision I'd arrived at after that ring shopping experience, was that I didn't want a diamond ring. I hated ring shopping. The things men "make" women do. Lol. “Men are like a deck of cards, you need a heart to love 'em, a diamond to marry 'em, a club to beat 'em and a spade to bury 'em.” If only it were as simple as that.